It is all about our hearts today. We are going through a very powerful storm within ourselves and love and relating are coming up. It’s time to open our heart energy to expand and to allow the storm to catalyse the energy it takes to do that.
I’ve often called relating to another in a special intimate way, ‘the final frontier.’ I guess this is because this is the area of life that I feel the most unconfident in and the most let down in, but also one I will honour and adventure in when it happens. I’ve had to reframe my whole view on what it is all about and throw away masses of social conditioning to do with it.
We have been working on the merging of the divine feminine and the sacred masculine within to be whole and complete human beings that may actually be able to relate to an intimate companion of destiny in a healthy and loyal way.
We may create our own culture with a companion of destiny and biff out the societal norms of dependency, roles, obligation, commitments, contracts, blah, blah, etc. To relate to another does not mean having to share the same bed and living areas. There would be more harmony if we just allowed others to come and go intuitively because we have such a great sense of self-trust that there is no need to make rules or have needs met by another.
Philosophising on dogs is interesting. How many of us know how they function in the wild? Most of the dogs we interact with now are conditioned by human beings. We actually think we own them. In Malaysia I saw wild dogs running together in their protective little packs. Natural lore brings quite a different way of being.
We have been conditioned by Hollywood and fairy tales into happy ever after scenarios of dependence, romance and distorted sexuality. The creative force of our sexuality has had its energy used and siphoned in the intense emotions that come with it from malevolent forces and these forces are being cleared from the planet now.
Many of us have had to heal a whole lot of trauma from distorted sexual practices with predators and victims. Why does relating intimately with another have to have this arrow like heart piercing Cupid energy? It’s just not natural. We have some healing to do here (overall) to bring intimate relating back into something that is sacred and pure. Whatever happened to just simple presence with another and allowing nature to guide what happens in it?
Rainstorm energy may shake up the stagnant energy of relating and usher in a fresh and joyful way when two come together whole and complete, not needing to give any aspect of the self away and simply living in love, honesty and authenticity. There is no need for oppressive compromises or for anyone to lead or dominate another. Life is dynamic. Embrace change.
Cultural things can go largely unthought-of. For instance, when you dress in the morning, do you automatically pull on underwear? This is cultural. Some cultures don’t have any or the need for any. I’m not saying we should all run around with no underwear. I’m just trying to show that much of what we do, happens without thinking because it has become such a strong cultural practice.
We will find things to heal in ourselves through the people we relate with. If we have the deepest desire to not hurt the other because we truly love him or her, and we remember this, when something does happen that causes tension, we may just look to ourselves first to see what is there and if it is there because of our pasts and address it with self-love.
We have a lot more purity, completeness and empathy now. We may still need to communicate well with others, but we also may feel what they feel and intuitively flow into our emerging higher frequency ways without too many plans or limitations. Our connection with nature is all we need. Bountiful love is found in nature and connecting with all its elements in balance, the honouring of the four directions, the sacred lore of the land.
All may be done in love. The more we love ourselves, the more we can love another. We honour each other’s lives, spaces, privacy and bodies and if there is a building of positive energy together, we may just choose to hang out together.
We may also choose to take time on our own. It’s a bit like breathing. Breathing in is like togetherness and breathing out is like taking our own space. Both are necessary so as not to cause over-inflation or depletion.
Let’s ditch obligation, expectation and any ideas that we have that cause energy blockages in relating. Let’s listen to our hearts and have the courage to follow them. Let’s be open to learn, to be gentle and tender with others. Let’s open and expand our hearts to trust others and allow them into our lives as they are ready, to run and play and have fun with companions of destiny if that is a heart’s desire – and so it is
In lak’ech ala kin
I took this photo yesterday in celebration of giving back to Pachamama who has been coming into balance with her sacred masculine and divine feminine energies. Two hearts and today, the day of dog I have launched into speaking about one of the topics I find most challenging to talk about. I had not connected with how appropriate this photo is for today until I realised it was a day of the dog in wholeness and completeness. Pachamama speaks in synchronicities. She is alive and well with us. In-joy,
Thank you for giving what you can so I may continue to write for free for Pachamama. In lak'ech.